Earn true trust and build a legacy by making your clients feel comfortable trusting you from the first conversation, writes Christine Carlo George.
Let’s talk about what happened recently. My husband and I stopped at the ski shop. My husband has two rebate cards that he previously purchased that are about to expire. After walking around a bit, he found a nice shirt that was twice the value of the card, but no big deal. He liked it enough to pay the $75 difference.
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We waited in line.
I arrived at the counter.
And…wait…
The cashier told him he could only use one card. Store policy, he said. Only one card is allowed per item. And just like that, sales evaporated. My husband left without wearing a shirt. And we left home feeling frustrated, cheated, and unappreciated.
The key here is that the store didn’t just lose full-price purchases. They lost an opportunity to turn casual shoppers into rave reviews about them.
I’ve felt the same way about airline points and credits (but that’s a story for another day).
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The point is that many companies use promotional strategies to get users to buy products and make it very difficult to redeem bonuses. The customer gets frustrated and feels a little foolish for believing in the offer in the first place.
Instead of making your customers do cartwheels, go the extra mile by doing everything you can to remove friction and make the experience unforgettable.
Take a look at the entire customer experience with you.
Notice every moment and milestone. Anticipate what you will need next. Next, implement simple systems to make things smoother rather than more complicated.
Let’s take the example of a first-time home buyer. Most of them start searching online and have no idea what they don’t know. They arrive on their first day of school feeling like kids, afraid to ask questions that might be considered stupid, unsure of what to expect, and completely unsure if their “teacher” or, in this case, their real estate agent, will take good care of them.
Now is not the time to take action.
How to remove friction and uncertainty
Here’s how agents can take the friction out of the “I don’t know what I don’t know” feeling.
Let’s start by talking to actual buyers. There’s no need to call someone right away or meet them briefly at a coffee shop to get them to sign a buyer’s agreement.
Invite them to your office and have them sit down.
Ask them what their goals are and what’s on their wish list. Then, stay calm and really listen to not only what they’re saying, but also what they’re not saying. That’s where the real concern lies. And that’s the first step to building trust.
Then, before you even look at the home, we’ll walk you through the entire process from search to closing. If the buyer can see the entire map, the journey will feel easier.
Pass a simple roadmap document. A one-page visual that explains the buying process in plain language, without the unfamiliar real estate acronyms.
Normalize their questions. Let them know in advance that no question will be too small or too basic. Buyers refrain from purchasing because they don’t want to appear uninformed.
Once they become a customer, predict before you ask. Good agents don’t wait for chaos to surface. They send a simple message every step of the way: “What’s happening this week and what to expect?” Proactive communication helps buyers feel guided rather than controlled.
Bottom line: Buyers need a lot of information. They need the right information, delivered at the right time, from someone who makes them feel safe and trusted. That’s where great agents gain real trust and build legacy business.
So the next time you meet with a potential new customer, ask yourself:
Where can we make things easier? Where can we exceed expectations? Where can I turn my clients into “I’ll tell everyone about you” superfans?
It doesn’t take long. You just need the will.
